Family is what matters

I got this from our very own Malaysian add during CNY.

its funny, its heart felt, and its our choice how we care for our family.



doing what we like is important, and looking after those that have cared for us is also important.
Balance this, and you will have a balance and happy life.

thanks for visiting my blog.

Have you seen an Rainbow after a Storm

Have you ever notices how beautiful it is when the sun come out after a heavy storm.
you will get to see dark clouds moving away and the sky begins to clear and the air seems to have fresh air. some times when your lucky enough, you will get to see a rainbow .

what a sight to behold.

that's what i got last Wednesday,
I when to pick Bangsa Auntie in the morning to visit dad in the hospital, and she ask me to drive as she just got back from work "night shift 8pm - 8am". We were hoping to get the Chance to talk to the doctors in charge of father to see what else we can do to help him recover. that day was not like any other.


our trip to KL, was surprisingly very smooth. not much traffic on the road.
then when we got in the hospital, aunt said "I would be lucky if we can get a parking, but i would like to keep that luck for father's recovery".. and at that point, we spotted a parking that was just nice for us. WOW!!!


It was a long way if we were to use the normal walk way to fathers wad, but then we choose to take a chance to follow a small rote to the other side, and guess what, it lead us to the entrance of fathers wad. Another WOW!!.


with happy faces already on our faces, we walk-up to the 2nd floor, we meet dad. i gave him coffee but this time he wanted it with some sugar, where i did... but after that i notice that it was salt, hehehe, dad ask me "you want to test my test buds ah?" hehe.
during that time, the Dr in that WAD rush to the bed behind father, surrounding a person. This person was the specialist the we wanted to see in the clinic later, but she is here!!! YEAH!!!!
REALLY WOW!!!


She explain that there was nothing Major with the body, he needs to sit and more his body, as after so long his body is so use to not moving it will be very sore to do so now. she then reminder her team to contact the Physio and the psychiatry to have a look with dad on that day it self.


And guess what, i got to see them that evening, they were nice and they gave me advice and actions steps to help father.


1) Support, (family support/ moral support / Mental motivation )
2) Exercise ( Hip movement (its like for pregnant woman) / and raising the bed up and down to stretch the back)


That was really a wonderful day, its really a day where i saw a rainbow in my family's life.
This motivates me to keep believing and keep giving my best.
(secret) law of attraction in action.

She is OUT and running!!

moving on the the last visit of my Kawasaki ZZR, its finally running.
but it came with a price, its RM1202 to be honest, and that is not a nice number...
MAHAL!!!!!

and it was only for.

1) re-trade 17 screws (RM98.00)
2) Timing chain (RM88.00)
3) Gasket (RM97.00)
3) Oil Filter (RM28.00)
4) Inter Pipe (2 set RM60.00)
5) Air Hose (RM2 set 56.00)
6) Shell 4T oil (2 bottles RM34.00)
7) Plug (2 RM10.00)
Gasket Cylinder head (RM128.00)
9) Gasket Magnet Cover (RM43.00)
10) Workmanship + welding part of the engine cover (RM560.00)

Total of RM1202... OMG.


but Finally, its running and it does sound good , when its moving i mean.
I will still need to fix other parts but i guess i will seek advice from my new bike club
ZZRians, since I'm the number 101 member.hehehe so lucky.

looking forward to riding on trips with this ninja.

thanks for reading. =)

STRESSS!!!! He ask me to take this picture, but he does not want to smile... is he telling us something ?

He ask me to take this picture recently, but he does not want to smile... is he telling us something ?
two days ago,
he made great progress by moving around and stretching his legs and back. he even "tried" to eat more even if it was only one or two spoons. everyone was so happy to see improvements and gave hope that he will be out of the sick-house soon.
Yesterday and today,
he does not want to move, he keeps saying that we (me/mom/ aunt) do not listen and wait for his call when ever we move him. He focus on the points that he has pain and he cannot move. tell us he wants to walk to the toilet, but does not want to move his legs and when we "physically and verbally" push him, he will complain that we are over doing it and his not suppose to move. (this does this make any sense?)

even Bangsa auntie notice that he is not making any efforts to get well. but insist that he wants to go home, but how is he going to when he dint even want to sit-up. (we can get the ambulance to send him home, but then what? )
WHAT IS HAPPENING!!!!!
E+R=O.. i keep reminding myself that to focus on the positive side. i know that he is not himself and he of all time needs our help and support, & I must stay calm and find a way to get thought this as a family.

i when over to the Orthopaedic clinic to ask for advice from the Dr. that is suppose to take care of father, but the nurse advice me to ask from the WAD doctors in the morning...(not really a answer i want, but if that's what it takes then i must make sure it happens)
Then i when over to the psychiatric clinic to see if i can meet either Dr.Pang (refereed by Pow stew) and Datuk Dr. Abdul Aziz. but guess what???
Dr Pang is no longer in GH, and if i want to speak to Datuk Dr, Abdul Aziz, i must ask Mr Mehran to call him and arrange a meeting. sooooo i did not get to see any of them. but then the staff there was nice enough to ask me to refer to the psychiatrist that seeing him last time, it was Dr Chong.. guess i will make the time tomorrow to find him.

people on my wanted list; Dr. Azizah Dr. Chong

anyone who spots this two Dr's pls contact Webster (only alive, coz if they were dead then cannot ask them already).

that's all for now.
thanks and i believe that will be an rainbow coming soon. now it just a test to see how much i really want it.

Trip to Klang (Oct 2008)

I was looking into my photos and i recall a trip i made with Ya'tze and Chety to KLANG.
that was a one day trip and it was because Ya'Tze Had 2 roadshow at the same day in Klang, so we tag along. even if the time we spend together was short, but its was all wort-it. (SOYA & CINCAU)
We 1st drop Ya'tze by a pharmacy that was like impossible to find, but guess what, we found it...( cacat) then me and Chety when driving, to Jusco!!!

Just outside of Jusco, there was a 'Fun FAIR' well, It was not open in MId DAY!!!
Then after the drive, We stop by for a hair cut, "I think the barber is Mute" he did say a thing and he only emm, emm, even after i paid. (it was RM10) MAHAL!!!

Then after cutting hair, we still have time. then i recalled that Klang is famous for Cendol, so that's what we when looking for. LAW OF ATTRACTION, that's what we found.

Here we are Finally together again, even for just 1hour.
We were in the car on our way to the next stop (roadshow). Ya'tze had lunch in the car "we tapau Roti from the bakery"

berdua-duaan.... so nice!!!!

We then Lepak in a cafe near by the next roadshow. it was a vey nice looking place with WIFI, the only things are (HOT, banyak Nyamuk and the drinks was very nipis "no taste") but the for the price, it was ok (can rest mah)
Nice to see, not always nice to drink..... hehehe
not long after, we have infront of the place where Ya'Tze is working, there was a large group of people and a polis car , so me and chety when to kepoh.in the car at that time was one man, he was a stanch theft... guess who got him ... not me lor, but it was the general public. and its not that man looking in the patrol car.

Here are some of the cool buildings that we saw on our walking trip.. Why we walk, long story




here we have the old way of making Cendol... hehe =) this is nicer and its only RM1.50 bungkus


Now, the pictures of the cars in KLANG!!! i have no idea why , but i like it....

todays super Heros!!!

after visiting father from the hospital, prayer in the temple and after a very long day in the office... I kind of feel that life kind of lost its value "no fun"..

But when i almost hit the ground or rock bottom, here comes SUPER HEROES of today to save the day!!!

In red, Jef Chong AKA" MyFM guy" , Chet Leng "Small eye Cat girl" and my LOVE Khoo Ya'Tze "SOYA".
Chong and chet leng came over and we had a very long chat at home, then after chong got his short "wet" nap, we when up to Look out point. its near bukit belacan.
The 3 of them really help me re-energize my social emotion " does that make sense???" well i know it made me feel great.
I love you guys, thanks alot!!!


And too the readers , thank you for reading. =)

My ZZR 250

Its time to change my post to something abit up-beat..

Guess what guys?
I got my new KAWASAKI !!!!

but now its in the shops coz the timing chain is lose and there are some parts in the bike that needs to be fix. here are the pictures of my new wife "Ya Tze calles it my 4Th wife". hehe =)

This is my Kawasaki ZZR250, here we her without her fairings (she is naked) hehe.

Here we have the "Butt" of the bike. this one has a single ezxos with a nice sound. vroommm!!

Here we taken off the tank and it looks small.... tingal tulang saje
I guess its getting ready for Halloween

OMG, his an alien!!!! Not really, here we have the bikes coolant being drain out.. (green with Kawasaki)

This is the black oil ( not cooking oil ), its black because of the carbon from the engine.

This is the engine, the heart of the bike. the head of the engine is already taken off so that you see in the inside of the bikes heart.. ( Look into my heart) the song.

This is where the timing chain is located, that is one of the problem now ( timing chain lose and makes loads of noise)

Now here is what made the timing chain lose, there was a broken part that the last owner fix, but was not done properly, so that will need to be re-build....

So now, must wait for the parts and hope by this week i can get it back...
at least can go jalan-jalan on it. even if its to the office and to the hospital...

I will keep smiling =)
Thanks for reading, see you soon.

my latest trip to GH, and I got to Talk to a Doctor

Just got back from the Hospital, i was there for about 3hours. dad did an ultrasound (the same thing mothers will do to see their babys in the tummy) this time dad is not scaning for a baby, but to look into his kidneys.

I got the chance to talk to the doctor this time, It was Dr. N. She was nice to share what was happening and what are the steps they are taking to help father recover.

she explained that his kidneys are week. and he needs to be transferred to another wad after this so that another specialist can work on father's kidneys. Now, they must stop antibiotic and certain pain killers because they will make them even worse. father had a habit of taking pain killers (ponstan 500mg) each time he has pain and his not the kind of person that drinks clear water. he drinks mostly Coffee and tea ... and COKE. This does not help with his kidneys, plus he smokes, that makes it weaker 2times faster.

and for his pain, Dr N, and other Bone specialist found that fathers Lumbar area (i think L2 & L5) is dislocated. this cause the nerves inside to get pinch (cause PAIN). Dr.N did not say what they will do about the Spine yet, but she stress on his kidneys 1st. i believe its true, because if he cannot take medication , he may not be able to take the surgery. so its 1st things 1st.

.................................................................. what else can i say? i really don't feel like saying anything now. maybe next time when i feel better.
a cloud will clear and a rainbow will appear, but not now.

what does Cellulitis look like on my dad's leg

Cellulitis,

Cellulitis is an infection of the deep subcutaneous tissue of the skin. Cellulitis can be caused by normal skin flora or by exogenous bacteria, and often occurs where the skin has previously been broken: cracks in the skin, cuts, blisters, burns, insect bites, surgical wounds, or sites of intravenous catheter insertion. Skin on the face or lower legs is most commonly affected by this infection, though cellulitis can occur on any part of the body. The mainstay of therapy remains treatment with appropriate antibiotics.

Erysipelas is the term used for a more superficial infection of the dermis and upper subcutaneous layer that presents clinically with a well defined edge. Erysipelas and cellulitis often coexist, so it is often difficult to make a distinction between the two.

Cellulitis is unrelated to cellulite, a cosmetic condition featuring dimpling of the skin.

(from WIkipidia)

but his main problems is not the leg.... but the pain he gets all over his body.
after 3days of X-rays (about 19 shoot) the doctors still cannot really tell us what is the problem. if they don't even know what they are dealing with, how are they going to fix it. I ask myself, WHAT CAN I DO NOW..........

its a cloudy day

My dad is admitted to GH, not good news.

still after each strong there is a rainbow, so this means that this visit to the hospital for the next few days, will help him get better.

Doctors say he has Cellulitis...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cellulitis
I don't get it, how does this link to the body pain??
that's why dad is getting an X-ray to check.

i have a choice,
feel sad and lower moral
or
Feel happy for things will be better

I have the power to choose!!!

Busy week.

i have so much i want to post, but because i also have so much to finish, the blog will be take a backseat for now.

must finish

• Mailers for all the Grads. by (15 Oct "that's TODAY!!!!")
• finish & collect SCP report / Lesson plan. by (16 Oct )
  
• Presentation for AP103 on Nature VS Nurture "I'm focus on Nurture" by (16 Oct)
  
• completing chapter 1 on AP103 by (15 Oct)
  
• preparing for Saturday class (10am - 12pm & 1 - 5pm) by (17 Oct)
  
• Planning and creating a business "as a business partner" from (15 - 18 Oct)
• Prepare Lion Dance Practice Every (Monday, Wednesday & Saturday) 8 - 10pm.

Webby is busy this time, lucky got thing thing called time Managements "weekly planner"
It really works!!!! thanks GOD.

anyways here a pic of only half of the mailers we finish so far.
Aiyo, did not shave.......
ehhehehehehee =P

ROTI "BaBi", its really called roti babi

After class on Thursday, i confirm with the people in the office that we were going to have roti babi for lunch.

so i when down into KL, to a old Chinese shop that sells this very special dish.

This is how it looks (i tapau so its missing some extra garnish)

This what you will find inside it

The taste wise, i personally feel it was nice, so nice that it was not enough for me....
well it made me feel hungry the hold day lor.
the price for one of this are RM7.50 , yes i also think its expensive. this means that its not a daily meal coz if it was, your be broke in no time.

Well, how can you find the shop?
check this out:

This is the shop "Yut Kee" its at 35 Jln Dang Wangi, 50100, KL.

Its most of the time pack, if you plan to go on Monday, "don't" coz its close.

They also serve Pork chop, Swiss rolls, and many stuff. but i will recommend the ROTI BABI, its a must have for you guys that can take pork lar ok.