"I wasn't everything you ever wanted" Oh PLease...

I notice that many people post this statement online " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. "

 To me, this translate that your not able to meet to that other persons expectation... whether its on romantic relationships, friendship or even work. I can relate that when you care for some-one, you want them to get the best, and recognize you for it. Even more so, if you have deep feelings or even love for them. and It does give some positive outcome, were you push yourself to be a better person...

 at the same time, we allow that other person to take over out self-perseption. I mean,  " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. " is like saying "Im not giving what you wanted" or "I'm not saying what you want to hear" or "I'm not doing what you want me to do" ... if you step back and look at this few sentences,  you can notice that it seems like your living your life for them...

If a person was to like you, as a friend, team or even lovers, Its because of you... and not for who you should be. I mean, so modifications are good to improve yourself. STILL its the original you that Matters.

For me, rather then saying " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. "  choice to say it this way " Im Sorry, for you did not notice what is in-front of you right now" I know it sounds like ... WHAT???....
But if you think about it and see the difference, you will notice the 2nd sentence is saying that....
 Hey, stop expecting something i"m not, and see and love what i am. for I am beautiful for being ME.

Love yourself, for you are Beautiful and AWESOME.

by Webby aka Webster Ku
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