"I wasn't everything you ever wanted" Oh PLease...

I notice that many people post this statement online " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. "

 To me, this translate that your not able to meet to that other persons expectation... whether its on romantic relationships, friendship or even work. I can relate that when you care for some-one, you want them to get the best, and recognize you for it. Even more so, if you have deep feelings or even love for them. and It does give some positive outcome, were you push yourself to be a better person...

 at the same time, we allow that other person to take over out self-perseption. I mean,  " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. " is like saying "Im not giving what you wanted" or "I'm not saying what you want to hear" or "I'm not doing what you want me to do" ... if you step back and look at this few sentences,  you can notice that it seems like your living your life for them...

If a person was to like you, as a friend, team or even lovers, Its because of you... and not for who you should be. I mean, so modifications are good to improve yourself. STILL its the original you that Matters.

For me, rather then saying " I'm sorry I wasn't everything you ever wanted. "  choice to say it this way " Im Sorry, for you did not notice what is in-front of you right now" I know it sounds like ... WHAT???....
But if you think about it and see the difference, you will notice the 2nd sentence is saying that....
 Hey, stop expecting something i"m not, and see and love what i am. for I am beautiful for being ME.

Love yourself, for you are Beautiful and AWESOME.

by Webby aka Webster Ku
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Webby's BACK!!!

Wow,  Its been some many months since my last update in this blog.
SO many things happen along the way, life have been hitting hard. But even so, I choice to see it as a test to prove that I'm really Up for what I believe in.

 Success is protected behind a great big WALL, why you ask?
The wall is not to stop us from getting in.. but to protect us from success.
What i mean is, Success is a very powerful entity, and Many has fallen when acquiring success without much resistance.. for example, A person who won the lottery, or the child with a golden spoon.

 They got what wanted easy, and most of the time, its also lost that easily too. Compared to those who fought hard to get to where they want to in life. They gain valuable experience and the will-power to fight on, (Building muscle) to handle Success.

 Many stories we hear of success and how great it is... But sadly we don't hear much about the curse or Success. The Fact that One Must be Strong enough to handle Success and use it for the benefits of MANKIND. and for those who are not prepared, but gain Success.... crumble and fall to its awesome power.. hence learning to fear success...

what Am I saying? Are we to Fear Success??
 NO!!
  We are all Success-full in our own right, thats why we are able to be born. What i am saying is, we need to build our Muscles, of life (experience and will power) to be able to get pass the WALL and claim OUT SUCCESS towards LIFE.

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Thanks for reading, and stay focus with a great BIG Smile =)

Webby